Happy New Year 2011

Happy New Year! Happy New Year!

Well, a lots of thing happened in my life back in 2010...there was the greatest thing, and there was the worst thing as well...

# married with the love of my life

# losing my souldad...Al-Fatihah....

I love my work...actually i love my workplace..i don't have to stuck in any traffic jam..haha:)

My resolution? I'm trying the best to settle the debts......owh:( car, credit cards etc...

and enjoying the whole year with my love and my families....

2011, pls welcome....:)

My BestFriend Wedding!

whoaa...lame x update blog...aku sebenarnye malas and i'm not so that called IT woman..huhu...well, my bestfriend, Liyana Safra Zaabar was married on last Oct...no worries, i believe they're still on their honeymoon mood..so, it's not too late for updating their marriage in my blog, i guess! haha:)

Liyana selamat dinikahkan dengan sekali lafaz bersama pasangan Niqman Albali....She looks gorgeous in her tiffany blue wedding dress...and i envy her! totally!

Liyana being my good friends since we were in high school, we're both having probs to find our man..and after a few tries, i think we both found our soul mate:) Congrats to Yana and Niku, you look gorgeous and stunning, and i really think Niku is a perfect match for you:) enjoy their weds pic!

the tiffany blue's wedding dress is awesome! Thumb up to the designer:)

the 5 layers wedding cake..looks yummy!

the perfect soulmate!

now they're officially husband and wife:)

Dear bestfriend, i wish you live happily ever after...cepat2 dapat baby okay! love you always mate!

Raya 2010

yeay! lagi 10 hari nak raye.......well, kawen dengan org yang keje hotel ni sgt memeningkan dan tak berape nak best:( sorry abg, mmg tak best! dari mule2 pose aku dah fikir cmne nak balik raye tahun ni...dan last2 minit cmni baru tau jadual keje Otam...jadi, conclusionnye, raye pertama di Terengganu, raye kedua di Nilai..fair and square la kann..tapi kalau dah beli tiket flight last2 minit cmni, mmg rabak tak kire laaa....huhu..tapi takpe...berbaloi...raye pun sekali setaun je..and yang paling penting, dapat raye dengan suami tercinta...theme raye?? kaler purple, pasal baju melayu tunang tahun lepas kaler purple..alaa...baru pakai sekali je kot...buat ape membazir....kannnn...

selamat hari raya in advance!

list of what ika done so far for during this ramadhan :)

1. masak for sahur
2. masak for berbuka
3. keje balik awal
4. nyanyi karaoke ngan tekoh dan pija
5. keluar shopping baju raya ngn myra
6. beli makan di pasar ramadhan
7. makan dengan saya kat dutavista
8. tidur tak awal
9. siram pokok cili dan pokok limau nipis

yg benar,
otam

Pulang ke rahmatullah..kepada Pencipta mu..

ayahandaku, Che Abd Aziz bin Harun, telah pulang ke rahmatullah pada 2 July 2010, jam 11.15 pagi. Punca kematian, Aspiration Pneumonia...dlm erti kata lain, jangkitan kuman pada paru2.

aku tengah bekerja pada hari kejadian, menerima panggilan daripada adikku..perasaanku pada waktu itu, Tuhan je yang tahu....aku sebenarnya dah plan nak pulang ke kg pada mlm tersebut, bersama abgku....terkilan, sbb tak sempat nak berjumpa arwah sms beliau masih bernafas...:(

naik penerbangan ke Kuala Terengganu pada jam 3 ptg, smpi dlm pukul 4pm...ramai yang ada di rumah...bila masuk ke rumah, aku lihat tubuh ayah keras x bernyawa..melihat ayah pergi buat selamanya....bukan satu perkara yang mudah.....

tapi aku harus kuat..kuat untuk ibu dan adikku...ayahku pergi dengan tenang..tanpa kesakitan..dan ayah pergi pada hari Jumaat....hari yang diredhai....

air mata masih menitik....mungkin agak sukar ntuk melepaskan ayah pergi...ayah...maafkan ikah segala salah dan silap....

semoga arwah tenang di sana.....Al-Fatihah....

Honeymoon at Redang:)

Location: Ayu Mayang Resort, Pulau Redang, Terengganu
Date: 1-3 June 2010
Price: RM920 (RM460X2 pax)
Package: 3D 2N Snorkeling package



Ni dia punya signboard.


my hubby:)

Our honeymoon is at Redang Island! even though I was born in Terengganu, but i never went to any Island in my hometown..funny kan.. but tat is the truth..so, this is the first time i went to Terengganu Island..nice beach, white sand...but..hhoottttttt!

cantik giler chalet2 dia! and bersih!

Bertolak dari umah dlm pukul 8 pgi, mintak tolong my brother sent us to Merang Jetty. Then naik boat lebih kurang pukul 10 pagi, it takes around 1 hr to arrive in Redang. Sampai2 je trus check in and our first activity is snorkeling! i got excited!

ini dia chalet kami..simple but nice~

Chalet yang kami dapat agak ke belakang skit.. mengadap dapur, but not too bad actually. we're looking for some place with some peace, not to havoc. Start browsing for Redang Island since in KL..this is not the cheapest, but i think this is the best! chalet dia tak banyak, ade 13 bilik jer... baru lagi, built since last year, so room still nice, bersih and nampak baru.. pekerja2 chalet ni nmpak baik, but i just realize not too much Malaysian works here..


snorkeling!

Sampai2 je kat sane, our first activity is snorkeling.. i got excited as i never went snorkeling before.. untuk package ni ade 3 kali snorkeling.. 3 tempat yang berbeza..i got excited for the first and second place..but dah xde mood for the third place..getting bored i guess..plus i skin got bad sunburn..padan muke sbb x pakai sunblock!seminggu lepas tu, bersalin kulit! haha.. snorkeling best jugak..nmpak ikan nemo..huhu..but i would like to try for diving..hurrmmm..

best gileerr..hahah

Laut mmg tahap A..jernih dan bersih...but still masin..huhu...best giler mandi manda..tapi panas tak hengat! sepanjang duk kat situ, kitorg mandi pantai sekali jer..yang lain banyak gi snorkeling and jalan2...dapat tgk sunrise..Otam siap beli frisbee skali..kesian dia main sorg2..huhu..disebabkan siang kepenatan snorkeling, mlm aku tido awal giler..kesian otam, die boring..







ni tempat makan...makanan x berape on sgt:(

Ni tempat makan dekat resort ni..tempat dia best, mengadap laut..tapi makanan die x berape on sgt..more to chinese food..kadang2 makanan agak pelik...

Overall, our trip is good..but think can't be there for more than 3 days..there's nothing much we can do except for looking at the sea..the view is beautiful, nice place but not for the long stay i guess..

Looking fwd for the next trip..i wonder where.......:)

Happy Father's Day Ayah and Abah

Now i have 2 dads:)

Yesterday was father's day..Ayah still admitted in ICU, Hospital Sultanah Zahirah, K. Trg... I'm not sure what caused ayah ill, but from my mom conclusion, ayah was infected by some kind of bacteria for his whole body..pity ayah:( ayah was sick 2 days before my marriage.. :( and till then, ayah struggling with the sickness until i got married...

Ayah, get well soon......i love you and i miss you damn much!

this is my dad in law.. me and hubby went back to Nilai and having dinner plus celebrating father's day...me, otam, zaim and ayai gave abah kind-of-pond with a stand...murah je...dalam RM180 je..we bought it at guthrie highway, i can't remember the store name, but there was a lot of beautiful decorations untuk laman rumah:) think to get one for my home yard:) wee.... abah like it!

oowh, it;s 8.36 am.. need to get a shower and get to work! i hate monday!

to my ayah and abah, selamat hari bapa to both of you:)

Majlis Bertandang~Kelana Jaya

my outdoor photoshoot at Damansara Height.

Wohoo! Thank God everything dah settle perfectly..:) Majlis bertandang pun dah selamat berlangsung di Dewan Tiba, Kompleks Tabung Haji Kelana Jaya pada 12 June yang lepas...tempat yang best dan selesa..makanan, Perfect! sedap...ramai yang puji...overall, majlis berlangsung dengan jayanya...meja pun cukup, no guests waiting for a seating..Alhamdulillah...:)

ape yang tak besnyer pada hari tersebut adalah my wedding dress... the theme shud be black-gold, even my family in law and bridemaid pun all dress up in gold...but d**n, my wedding dress tak sempat siap as promised...i have no choice, they offered me blue.. wtf! then, the only option they can provide me is red and a lil' gold...it's still out of theme, but compared to blue, think red is the best option i had!

me and my BFF, Myra and Tiha, my bridemaid..

the other thing that suck it's the make up! OMG... what they have done! i looked like a *****! fuck the shading! damn it! so out of date..thank God i didn't wear her wedding dress.. pls la.. wake up! world has changed! update your make up skill pls!! tak pasal2 muke aku ade line hitam pulak....arghhh!! tu tak masuk time hidung lagi...uisk! sakit hati nengoknye...ingat aku ni kude belang ke ape!think bout make up, i became so stress out!well..it's over now... huhu:( tapi tetap tak best...

even my parents are not there, but thanks to all families, sedara mara yang hadir...huhu..at least, ade jugak kan...Dad, cepat sembuh........:(

my wedding cakes.. thanks to bro in law, simran for sponsoring this cake! the looks as good as its taste!

Now, i want to thank all who did support and work had for the wedding.. Special thanks to:

My Families..my parents yang banyak kuarkan sponsor, my brothers and sisters yang busy serving the guest, my aunties, cousins,who helped to cook..

My Family in law..yang banyak support for the financial thingy (duit takde gatal nak kawen)..thanks to bro in law, simran yang support the cake and his wife, Ika (same name cam aku) yang support hantaran..

My BFFs .. Myra and husband, Meme, Yana and Shafik, Tiha and her bff.. for helping out on the wedding day, tolong gubah hantaran, tolong buat outdoor yang last minit, tolong pakaikan inai, jadi my pengapit, tolong belikan inner and contact lense and everything happens on that day itself...

My photographers, Apex and Hanis.. thanks guys! u just make my day! i look so lovely..can't wait for the book to be complete... giving extra credit to Gape The Skecth Photography. you can visit them at

http://www.gapethecontengartphotografiq.blogspot.com

and thanks to all who came and the gifts and the prayers... and the angpau.... thank you all...

Now aku dah jadi warga kelana jaya! aku dah jadi seorg isteri!.. well, life is more to complete now..

till then...:)

married to Otam

Dengan 2 kali lafaz, saya sah sebagai seorang isteri kepade Otam bin Abd Rashid pada 29 Mei 2010.



kami nikah di Masjid Tengku Tgh Zaharah aka masjid Terapung di Kuala Terengganu pada pukul 9.00 pagi.



wohoo! rase cam x pecaye yang finally i'm a married woman! huhu.... married to the one i love.. i thought i will never met the soul of my life..since what had happen for the past two years.. :( well, it's time to re-open the new chapter of my life.. i'm happy.... really2 happy....



*more wedding photos on my facebook

then the wedding reception was on the next day, 30th May 2010. It was a great reception for me, i think! haha...thanks to my BFF, yana, myra and meme as they are the big helpers on my big day...the reception was quite messy.. banyak mende buat last minit..thanks to them yang banyak tolong..i owe u guys! and i love u ols!


my BFF's Myra, Meme and Yana

Make up and pelamin dibuat oleh kawan ayah, Kak Na and Abg Din. They don't have any website/blog. but i like the reception make up. tak over sgt..simple but nice. Thank God hari panas on the reception, Alhamdulillah x hujan...amin...



ni time berarak..haha..messy jugak..aku dengan gaya brutalnyer..yana dah sound banyak kali, "control ayu skit" hehe....



well, overall i think it's okay..yang pentingnyer kami dah selamat di nikahkan.. nak gediks2 pun xleh marah dah..hihihi....

giving credits to Ika (otam's sis and my sis in law) sbb menaja hantaran..well, she was gifted...mmg cantik hantaran and ramai yang puji..well, sape nak hantaran, can call me or otam kay. price kene tanye tuan punye idea..



yang silver is hantaran from me to otam and the red one is vice versa. 9 berbalas 7 dulang hantaran.

now tgh tgu reception untuk menyambut menantu pada 12 june 2010 di dewan tiba, kompleks tabung haji kelana jaya. can't wait!

again, thanks to the families, thanks to BFF, thanks to friends.. thanks for the wishes and prayers.. pray for our happiness..happily ever after:)

to my hubby, i love you so much and can't wait to spend the whole life with you..

Setahun..ika and otam

1.4.2010~ Otam's 29th birthday..

"happy birthday sayang.."

tak bagi hadiah ape2 pun kat otam..ade skit financial prob:( tapi i managed to pakat ngan myra with her lil sis, and gravy baby owner, Mr Tri and wife, fynn to celebrate Otam's pre birthday..Otam kate die suprised, kire okayla tuh..hehe.. Special thanks to all yg membantu menjayakan birthday otam secara langsung and x langsung..(sepatutnye aku plan nak nyanyi utk otam, tapi masalah teknikal plak...)

8.4.2010~ our 1st anniversary.. Otam and Ika

This is the greatest moment..our 1st anniversary..giler ah, cam x pecaye dah setahun..mayb for certain peeps, setahun myb sekejap je, but for me, it's a WoW feeling! Things just happens so fast. I knew him somewhere in March when he started to leave a msg in my Myspace inbox, still remember the title, "kalau boring pegila bercuti", and i knew he play music when i first saw him perform at Sunway for the Earth Hour (damn, i pay RM75 just to get in there!)

We started to exchange phone num, and he do asked me wether i'm interested to meet him.Well, the craziest thing is i'm interested! It's crazy! girls biasanya x keluar ngan her "on-line" friends. bahaya dowh..sekali kene yang maniac2 tuh...uisk..mintak jauh..

Finally, on April 1 2009, on his 28th birthday, we met at Sunway and lepaking at Lepaq Cafe..masa tu Lepaq still kat hartamas..lepaking and saw him playin music. To be honest, i fell in love with his husky voice..aahhhh....haha. well, the date did not end on tat day. I still meet him, (i tot that dia dah x nak jumpe aku lagi, tapi dia nak la!)

and on this precious day, on 8th April 2009, Otam finally proposed me to become her girlfriend. Hoorraayy.. and u know what is my answer..

17th Oct 2009~ we're engaged!

now is looking forward for our big day..46 days to go...i'm counting the days to 29th May 2010.

these are the important dates in my life..and he is important..totally and exactly! i choose him!i want him.. i don't have any specific reasons, i just need him to be part of my life...

thank you sayang..

Gravy Baby kt Seri Kembangan: harga makanan tak mahal sangat, dan makanan pun bes

sekali lagi yg menulis disini adalah encik otam

Ika have to follow me to Gravy Baby, a new music joint up in Seri Kembangan. They opened for 2 weeks already and the sales are kicking in and they score full table during music showcase acts. It works! Congrats to Tri and Syafik for bringing up a platform for kaki seni semua :)

Dengan Baju baru yg dibeli dari Nichi, dgn alasan size tk muat kene beli baju baru, aku(otam) mmg tak membantah. Dia jugk ader beli kasut (or selipar) kat kedai yg sama. Glad she did. Sebab the pair she bought almost dont have heels. pastu pakai zip blakang plak tu. Looks firm and safe. Takut aku when she put on high heels and seeing her naik turun tangga, tak jatuh ke bende tuh. Seen her slip-off once! but lucky she managed to hold that time.

ok back to Gravy Baby. Myra came out with us. She brought a camera. I think we love Khairul S. 's performance. He came all the way from batang berjuntai to play music here. The place is packed.

Besides eating and listening to music, and gossips(otam not included), lots of picture were taken n here are the fews:

Masih lagi kat sini :)

kay ni otam lagi menulis blog ni

we went to Pantai Batu Buruk. Before that we went to local kuih stand ntah kat maner ntah, wish i knew how to go there next time. Perghhhhh selection kuih dia siap display dan di pek molek molek. Aku suker giler kedai tu. Banyak jenis kuih yg aku dah luper atau mungkin langsung tak penah rasa sebelum ni. More info about this kuih joint please refer to ika. Memang layan. Sayang, didnt snap a picture of the place.

ok kat tepi pantai macam biasa scene yg sama, tapi kali ni takder org mandi. Ombak deras giler babi. Singgah lepak makan kuih yg dibeli tadi. Antara aktiviti yg berlaku selepas itu adalah menunggang Kuda dan jugak main Layang layang :)

Faqihah: "kakak tak naik kuda ni, ni kuda sawah. kakak nak kuda yg besar tu"

*ni dia koboi yg kami jumpa di pantai burok, tapi dia tak buruk. dia lawa


*ni dia pulak salah seorang peghuni pantai kat situ bersama layang layang peribadi nya

Sekarang kat Terengganu!!!

yer, ika mmg malas update blog... persiapan perkahwinan yg telah beres:

Baru baru ni banyak try tengok pakej baju pengantin dan pelamin kat area subang, cheras, dan gak klang, last last amik offer kat Nilai. Aku(otam) tak buat banyak research, cuma aku banyak bagi feedback dan luahan hati sahaja. Ika banyak kaji sana sini, siap internet browsing dan jugak tanyer member member dia seperti myra. Pelamin belah laki dah settle rasanyer, kad kawen on the way, dan Jais punyer urusan blah aku pun dah settle dan sekarang kene cocern kat belah terengganu pulak.

So sekarang ni kami berada di Bukit Payung. Sebelum berangkat pergi aku ngan ika singgah kedai buku popular tu, kinokuniya, beli buku Origami, siap bagi kertas dia lagi sebagai hadiah untuk kak Faqihah Izzati sempena keputusan cemerlang dia kat sekolah. Mula mula dia demand hadiah handphone, tapi handphone kang dia main sorang sorang, kalau buku origami bleh main ramai ramai :) sebenarnye budget $$$ aku ngan ika agak pokai sikit :( tapi mahal la buku buku kat kedai tu... ader satu buku origami tu siap ajar buat bangunan dan jet pejuang dengan kertas sahaja dah boleh capai rm 300!!!!

wonder if they actually make good money from the sales? there was a lot of fancy books with fancy hard covers, especially in the kid's section. Minimum price for them each is around rm 50!

writing this on Friday. Friday is like Saturday here where Ika came from. I am waiting for her and her sister to bring me out to town. We are going to browse for wedding things.

kudos to encik Ghazalee (a.k.a Apeq) for his creative efforts for the wedding cards :)

http://www.gapethecontengartphotografiq.blogspot.com/

Valentine's Gift

Yeay, tahun ni dapat surprise from my fiance! I've got my dream heels...and i know how much it cost! It's a lot! thanks abang.........

When he arrived, I opened up a door, and he gave me a 3 red roses, it was beautiful. then he tied my eyes, asked me to sit and relax..then suddenly he came with a red box, and inside it was a red heels....everything was red! it's a love day.....

It's a Lewre's high heels...together with a clutch... Damn i love the shoes too much! i adore it!

Thanks so much to my love, Otam for giving me this. Makes me love u more and more each days! Now i can't wait for our big day!

Marriage Thingy

wahhhh...lame giler x update blog..obviously, i am not a blogger..haha!

is it too late to wish HAPPY NEW YEAR 2010?? :)

well, when it comes to 2010, i'll start thinkin of my marriage thingy..Thank GOD, finally we had our precious date-to-be.... 30 May 2010! another 3 months plus to go..fuuhhh...!!

we had done a few things..like hantaran..just need 2 things to add up..1 for me..and 1 for Otam...
For me, i've got myself a lewre shoes, a nine west handbeg, a DKNY watch, a bvlgary perfume, and want to add up some make up thingy--thinking og bobby brown (mahal dowh)

photographer! Yes, finally we had agreement to get Mr Gape to photoshoot us for the whole event, from Nikah until Sanding for both side..here are the link:

http://www.gapethecontengartphotografiq.blogspot.com/

Kad kahwin! hurm...nak senang cerite, kami tempah kat kawen ngan Mr Apexx jugak, the blog owner! photoshoot ntuk kad kawen, kalau xde aral, will be on this coming Tuesday!

Kursus Kawen and ujian HIV...Done! and we pass with flying colors! wuhuuu!

things yg x ready lagi!

- surat mohon nikah
- baju kawen
- pelamin
- doorgift

hurm....idea dah ade dlm kepale..tapi tgh fikir jugak mane nak korek $$$..

Kerja dan kerjaaaaaa.....

Hutang

sakit kepale pikir pasal hutang...hutang stady, hutang kereta, hutang bank....arghhhh!!!

terase diri amat bodoh.....hurm...

New Washing Machine

yeay! rumah saya sudah ada washing machine baru:)

brand: Toshiba

Weight: 7 kg

Price: RM750

Location: Seri Kembangan, Selangor.

awal bulan haritu housemate saya dah keluar rumah, kebetulan sume barang letrik dlm umah dia punyer:) so umah saya betul2 bujang sekarang..hehe...so saya beli la mesin basuh baru..okayla..bleh simpan buat kahwin nnt....

malam nnt nak basuh baju yg dah melambak2!

Kursus Kahwin 12&13 Desember 2009

Yeay! Akhirnya dah berjaya menempah satu tarikh untuk kursus kahwin..the date decided to be on 12&13th December 2009...Otam, pls make sure yourself are available on both dates! Susah nak plan kalau masing2 keje shift ni...:)

Location:Tingkat 2, Blok A , Damansara Business Centre (atas CIMB Bank) Jalan Damanlela, Pusat Bandar Damansara

Price: RM80 pax/person

Tentative:

Sabtu:
3.00 ptg - Prosedur Perkahwinan & Pembubaran (Ustaz Nasroddin Mat Daud)
5.00 ptg - Solat Asar
5.30 ptg - Kesihatan (Dr. Amaludin Abdul Rahman)
Ahad :
8.30 pg - Pengurusan Stres dan Konflik (Ustaz Azman Mat Hassan)
10.30 pg - Makan Pagi
11.00 pg - Komunikasi & Sumber (Ustaz Abdul Kadir Derani)
1.00 ptg - Makan Tengahari/Solat Zohor
2.00 ptg - Hubungan Keluarga dan Akidah (Ustazah Zawiah Hj Hassan)
4.00 ptg - Makan Petang
4.30 ptg - Ibadah dan Akidah (Ustaz Mohd Faizal Azhar Yusof)

Just can't wait for it!:)

Dear Ika, pls update your own blog, do not let otam update your blog

Yeay! i berjaya hack dalam ika punyer blog :)

My name is otam. My tunang is Ika. She is the owner of this blog. Is there anyone reading this blog? if do, please answer me. Because this blog dont have a 'comment box' before, i just put it on today. Hmm... today is Khamis. Tomorrow is Jumaat dan the day after tomorrow is Sabtu. This Sabtu, Ika will be in Kerteh for her best friend wedding, Myra and Amir.



how well otam knew Myra and Amir?

1. They brought us mandi sungai
2. Amir works in kemaman, and Myra in Maxis KLCC
3. Myra drive Viva
4. Amir loves the red devils
5. Myra is slim, and Amir is not slim
6. Myra's friend call Amir 'Perot' but Amir is cool about this
7. Myra and Amir had been together for 9 years! before they tie the knot
8. They hit it on when they r studying at Unitar, Kelana Jaya
9. They just got back from Cherating
10. Last time i heard they went shopping somewhere
    

ntah aper aku merapu ni. Sori otam kacau ur blog. I want to see u after work kay at 7, then we rush to that place kay. My perut is empty, but dont feel like eating... hmm. I should eat.

Hope you have a nice day kay. bye